Whilst the idea of hot, passionate sex with your significant other, every evening seems appealing, for many couples making it a reality is difficult.
With the stresses and strains of everyday life, housework, kids and chores, more often than not, the last thing you feel like doing at the end of a long day is getting down with it.
However, sometimes all you need is a little boost to get you in the mood – to flick the sex switch on in your brain and turn you into the bedroom vixen you know you are deep down. And the quickest way to let her out? A quick freshening up of your wardrobe could be all you need!
Read on for our tips on how to dress to impress in the bedroom – and hence feeling – your sexiest:
Confidence
This one goes without saying – the sexier you feel – the more you’ll drive your partner wild with your risqué attitude!
There’s something supremely arousing about knowing you’ve got your slinkiest two piece on underneath your marshmallow coloured dressing gown; the look on your partners face as you undress will be priceless…
Just as a present that is wrapped up looks as alluring as what is inside, the outfit you wear serves as motivation for the final reward.
As for what to wear, confidence comes from feeling great about yourself, so do whatever it takes to make this happen. If this means spending half your wages on that lace bra that makes you feel like a goddess then do it – your partner isn’t going to be complaining (until he sees the bank statement…)
Pick your favourite look
Whilst some of us love to dress up in heels and a dress, others feel sexier in bum-hugging jeans and a pair of converse; similarly, we all feel our best in different types of bedroom getup.
If you’re a glamour puss, then you’ll enjoy spending that extra time getting glammed up for a night between the sheets…
Matching underwear is a great way to make yourself feel sexy – especially if you’re not used to wearing a matching set every day.
You can go for full on curls or a sleek, straight do, but show your hair some love and you’ll feel more feminine and sexier than ever.
Finally, a little touch of makeup can do wonders for feeling sensual – a splash of red lipstick or a flick of jet black eyeliner that you don’t usually bother with can make all the difference in getting you in the mood to get frisky.
If you’re more of a chilled out kind of girl, then keeping it simple is perfectly fine and sometimes even sexier. Why not try slipping into one of his oversized shirts or your crisp white bathrobe – both of these will drive him wild when dropped before his very eyes! Cheeky briefs or boy shorts also work well if the whole red lacy thong thing just isn’t for you.
Fancy dress
Why not take the fun of fancy dress into the bedroom? (Note: We’re not talking Batman and Robin). Many people have deep-rooted sexual fantasies which they’re yet to act upon, so taking on new roles in the bedroom and dressing the part can be a great way to indulge in your imagination!
Some like the idea of being caught doing something they shouldn’t, whilst for others sex with an authority figure such as a policeman or teacher is the ultimate turn on. School girl outfits, police uniforms, fire-fighter get-up – the possibilities are endless!
Touch
Touching is – unsurprisingly – a huge part of the whole sex experience; amp up the feel-factor by incorporating different textures into your sex wardrobe. Silk, lace, and satin all feel heavenly against the skin – making them unbeatable choices when it comes to picking out underwear.
If you’re feeling a little more ambitious, experimenting with faux fur, leather or latex can shake up your bedroom antics; textures you aren’t used to can invoke brand new sensual sensations when they brush against bare skin.
Why not bring props into the mix? Silk blindfolds, leather mouth gags and masks release an individual’s senses, hence making the touch sensation stronger; this will heighten every bodily sensation that your partner experiences meaning, you guessed it, mind-blowing orgasms. Who knew an outfit prop had so much power?!
Always Accessorise
Regular, every day outfits as well as going out attire should always be accessorised for best effect – and your sex garments are no different!
You can even match you accessories to the time of year; bunny ears at Easter or a cute little Santa hat at Christmas time work well for a spectacular, themed romp in the sack…
Fluffy hand cuffs, leather whips and gags are great for those who like to err on the side of caution, and cowboy boots and nipple tassels are fun additions for those who don’t like to take their sex life too seriously.
As you can see, anything goes – so just have fun with it!
Love your shape
Embracing your shape and loving your body is the first step to enjoying a sheet-grabbing sex life. Choosing sex attire which highlights your best assets therefore is the best way to ensure you feel fully confident, sexy and ready to make a night of it.
Whether you’re a size 6 or size 26, you can look as sexy as you allow yourself to feel; try standing in front of the mirror naked and picking out the bits of your body you’re most proud of.
Love your boobs? Treat yourself to the sexiest push up bra you can find, or low cut sheer teddy which really works to show off your assets!
If your bum is your prize possession, then a pair of cheeky briefs or a tiny thong will enable you to show it off with pride.
Long shapely legs can be celebrated with sexy stockings and heels to make you look and feel like a Hollywood starlet.
If your eyes are your best feature invest in some great makeup and get the Smokey eye-look on point – the same goes for luscious lips and lipstick.
Finally…
Remember the sexiest curve on a woman is her smile – so walk into the bedroom feeling confident, sexy and happy and a hot steamy night will certainly be on the cards.
You’re welcome…
