In this day and age, long distance relationships (LDR’s) are becoming more common and normal with 12% of us in LDR’s in the UK. Sex is hugely important in any relationship and contrast to popular belief, maintaining a sexual relationship in a LDR can be achievable and doesn’t have to be a deal breaker. We’ve offered you the best tips to satisfy yours and his sexual needs when you’re miles apart…
The power of webcams
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Where would we be without skype?
Give your partner visual stimulation. Take it slow by taking off one item of clothing at a time to build suspense and to tease him. Compliment your man’s body – language is important, so be as explicit as you can, and tell him how incredibly horny you are, exactly what you would to do to him and how you would touch him if you were together. It will drive him wild. Start touching yourself and let him see everything you are doing. Don’t hold back when you climax, be vocal– even better if you can time it so you orgasm at the same time.
For added pleasure you can use sex toys in front of each other. Try Nora by Lovense vibrators which use Bluetooth to allow you to experience mutual pleasure. You can decide whose toy controls the other, so on cam he can watch as you writhe with pleasure, as he controls the intensity of the vibrations you feel.
Here are some other ways to have sexy fun on cam;
- Try watching porn together at the same time and touch yourself whilst you do this – this might even give you a few new ideas to try in bed for when you next see each other.
- If you’re feeling adventurous try out a sexy outfit – for him; a secretary or school girl outfit and for her; a policeman, or tuxedo. Check out our article for dressing up in bed!
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Phone sex
Phone sex gets easier with practice so if you feel a bit awkward at first, give it a few tries to get comfortable with it. Ensure no one’s around (unless you’re into that…) Be explicit – tell him exactly what you imagine him doing to you. Having a story planned out in your head can avoid any silences. Sit back, relax, close your eyes and imagine you’re together.
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Sexting
Send a few saucy texts, along with images throughout the day – when you’re fresh out the shower, or when getting dressed and you’re in your underwear – sometimes less is more and it gives him something to think about throughout the day and to anticipate your cam fun later. Sexting at times you shouldn’t – during work, that dull staff meeting, or a university lecture all adds an element of thrill and excitement.
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A letter
Try out a more traditional method, write him a letter. Okay, so it may take a week or more to arrive, but it will give him a nice surprise. A sexual account of what you’re going to do together when you reunite, or a fantasy story is perfect for this. It will definitely make him hard and he will be longing for you for the rest of the day.
Gifts
Send him a pair of your panties, a sexual toy like a cock ring or a sexual game to get him excited and remind him you’re thinking of him.
Be spontaneous
If he’s at a reachable distance, organise a surprise trip and turn up at his door (ensure he will be in first!) and head straight to the bedroom. All the sexual tension that has built up over time will be released and end in a mind-blowing fuck!
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