{"id":153,"date":"2016-01-20T12:12:13","date_gmt":"2016-01-20T12:12:13","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.xpanded.com\/?p=153"},"modified":"2019-04-25T15:29:05","modified_gmt":"2019-04-25T15:29:05","slug":"eight-fetishes-that-are-more-common-than-you-think","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.xpanded.com\/index.php\/2016\/01\/20\/eight-fetishes-that-are-more-common-than-you-think\/","title":{"rendered":"Eight Fetishes that are More Common than you Think\u2026"},"content":{"rendered":"

Nowadays the word \u2018fetish\u2019 is thrown around to describe anything from a love of sushi to a particular penchant for reality shows \u2013 however this retracts from its actual meaning; fetishes are essentially sexual obsessions referring to an object, body part or practice that becomes the focus of a person\u2019s desire whilst getting it on.<\/p>\n

Sexual fetishes are perfectly natural and healthy, as long as they\u2019re kept to the bedroom (it\u2019s when they start encroaching on your everyday life that you\u2019re teetering on dangerous ground) so if you have a list of dirty little secrets then we have good news \u2013 your deepest darkest fantasies might not be that weird after all\u2026<\/p>\n

Countless surveys have been done on the topic, and although there are no statistics for the most common fetishes in the UK, the same ones keep cropping up time and time again. Here\u2019s what they are \u2013 and our guide to making your bedroom dreams a reality:<\/p>\n

Podophilia<\/strong><\/h4>\n

So you think your feet are the last place your partner wants to touch you? Think again. Your tootsies are a major erogenous zone, so next time your partner offers a foot rub, take them up on it. Anything that will draw attention to your feet is a winner in a podophile\u2019s book, so get a pedicure or wear your favourite pair of heels and nothing else \u2013 men are extremely visual creatures so making your feet look pretty is sure to result in a seriously hot session.<\/p>\n

Agoraphilia<\/strong><\/h4>\n

For some people, getting it on in the great outdoors is incredibly sexy. The mix of raging hormones and endorphins with the \u2018will we or won\u2019t we get caught\u2019 adrenaline creates an enslaving cocktail of lust. Since you probably don\u2019t fancy ending your get-together with a visit to the police station, try less \u2018public\u2019 public places, such as toilet cubicles or even deserted forests in summer. Still a little too risqu\u00e9 for you? Simply opening the windows whilst hooking up can summon the same feelings of exhilaration.<\/p>\n

\"couple-sex-outside\"<\/p>\n

Alphmegamia<\/strong><\/h4>\n

We\u2019ve all heard of the \u2018cougar\u2019 – but for some of us, older, more experienced men are hot, hot, hot! We know what you\u2019re thinking \u2013 daddy issues! But the actual reason behind this fetish is thought to be to do with the fact that seasoned men are associated with knowing exactly what they\u2019re doing. For those women who like to be dominated, older men are often viewed as being more governing and able to take control of the situation.<\/p>\n

Altocalciphilia<\/strong><\/h4>\n

We\u2019ve already touched on this in foot fetishes, however for some guys the spike of a good high heel is an instant orgasm inducer. Your partner is sure to enjoy seeing you strut around in nothing but your favourite pair of stilettos, or, depending on personal preference, may wish to be prodded or even stamped on by your most strappy footgear. Remember to proceed with caution though \u2013 post coital trips to A&E are never fun.<\/p>\n

\"Woman's<\/p>\n

Hirsutophilia<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Erring slightly on the weirder side of things, this fetish involves being seriously aroused by armpit hair. Bizarre as it sounds, there is actual scientific backing to this particular sexual obsession; pheromones are rife in your lover\u2019s sweat, which collects in \u2013 yes, you guessed it \u2013 armpit hair.<\/p>\n

Pubephilia<\/strong><\/h4>\n

The clue is in the name for this one\u2026 Don\u2019t ever shave for your partner if they\u2019re in this league, because for pubephile\u2019s pubic hair is where it\u2019s at.<\/p>\n

Lingerie<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Because your undergarments are covered up in real life, having them on show (even though it\u2019s just the two of you) can be incredibly erotic. Give your partner a sneak peek by sending a sexy snap of your lacy bra strap to his phone or try slipping a pair of red panties into his briefcase to discover at work. This is guaranteed to result in a steamy relations on his return\u2026<\/p>\n

\"Beautiful<\/p>\n

BDSM<\/strong><\/h4>\n

Since Christian Grey exploded onto the scene, we\u2019re willing to bet there\u2019s not a single person who hasn\u2019t toyed with the idea of BDSM. You don\u2019t have to go from zero to 100 straight away, though. Light spanking, handcuffs or tying your partner\u2019s hands with a silk scarf will give both of you an idea of how you feel about this less than vanilla sex option. Exploring the ideas of \u2018dom\u2019 and \u2018sub\u2019 with your partner will allow the two of you to establish roles you enjoy and advance at your own pace.<\/p>\n

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Nowadays the word \u2018fetish\u2019 is thrown around to describe anything from a love of sushi to a particular penchant for reality shows \u2013 however this retracts from its actual meaning; fetishes are essentially sexual obsessions referring to an object, body part or practice that becomes the focus of a person\u2019s desire whilst getting it on. […]<\/p>\n","protected":false},"author":2,"featured_media":158,"comment_status":"open","ping_status":"open","sticky":false,"template":"","format":"standard","meta":{"sfsi_plus_gutenberg_text_before_share":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_show_text_before_share":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_icon_type":"","sfsi_plus_gutenberg_icon_alignemt":"","sfsi_plus_gutenburg_max_per_row":"","footnotes":""},"categories":[368],"tags":[19,16,17,18,15,20],"class_list":["post-153","post","type-post","status-publish","format-standard","has-post-thumbnail","hentry","category-trending","tag-adult","tag-fetish","tag-footfetish","tag-lingerie","tag-phonesex","tag-sex"],"aioseo_notices":[],"aioseo_head":"\n\t\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t\n\t\t