{"id":1956,"date":"2019-03-26T17:11:21","date_gmt":"2019-03-26T17:11:21","guid":{"rendered":"http:\/\/blog.xpanded.com\/?p=1956"},"modified":"2019-04-25T15:50:29","modified_gmt":"2019-04-25T15:50:29","slug":"is-texting-really-ruining-our-relationships-yep-it-is","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/blog.xpanded.com\/index.php\/2019\/03\/26\/is-texting-really-ruining-our-relationships-yep-it-is\/","title":{"rendered":"Is texting really ruining our relationships? Yep it is"},"content":{"rendered":"<p>With thousands of ways for us to communicate with each other, the way we choose to mediate our romantic and sexual relationships has become a bizarrely fraught subject. Texting, emailing, messaging, Instagram messaging etc have all come to replace phone calls or even (dare we say it) face to face contact. And according to one study there is one thing that we should stop doing now in order to improve our chances at a relationship or improve communication within a pre-existing one &#8211; stop texting! Why? Because we are incapable of telling someone\u2019s tone and it does what one study out of <a href=\"https:\/\/news.byu.edu\/news\/too-much-texting-can-disconnect-couples-research-finds\">Brigham Young University calls \u201clower relationship quality.\u201d<\/a><\/p>\n<p><img loading=\"lazy\" decoding=\"async\" class=\"size-large wp-image-1749\" src=\"https:\/\/blog.xpanded.com\/wp-content\/uploads\/2019\/02\/cheating-1024x683.jpeg\" alt=\"Portrait of a handsome young man with a beard checking his smartphone and texting his lover while his partner sleeps\" width=\"860\" height=\"574\" \/><\/p>\n<p>Countless studies have shown that messaging and texting are counterproductive when it comes to early stages of a relationship precisely for this reason. Not only that, but a study carried out by The Journal of Couple and Relationship Therapy showed that texting too much or texting about \u2018the wrong things\u2019 could cause havoc to a healthy and already solid relationship!<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"giphy-embed\" src=\"https:\/\/giphy.com\/embed\/P2sqgk8fykRzi\" width=\"480\" height=\"480\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>Texting your romantic interest is often categorised as \u2018relationship maintenance\u2019 psychologically speaking and it\u2019s something that both parties engage in, in order to signal to each other that they\u2019re on the same page.<\/p>\n<p>The problem is that often texts get lost in translation and what happens is a watering down of the interaction and communication quality, particularly in that part of \u2018relationship maintenance\u2019 includes arguing. And unlike IRL arguing, where one party can apologise to another by means of physical touch or an expression, arguments are harder to denuclearise via text message.<\/p>\n<p><iframe loading=\"lazy\" class=\"giphy-embed\" src=\"https:\/\/giphy.com\/embed\/l1J9wqGDJiXDhhzJC\" width=\"480\" height=\"268\" frameborder=\"0\" allowfullscreen=\"allowfullscreen\"><\/iframe><\/p>\n<p>So what to do? The advice most often given is to simply stop texting or at least reduce the amount of texting considerably and use them only for practical purposes and not for serious relationship conversations. So just get rid of your phone straight away! What\u2019s more another thing hurting relationships this week according to the latest <a href=\"https:\/\/www.theguardian.com\/lifeandstyle\/shortcuts\/2019\/mar\/11\/screen-snubbing-partner-test-people-relationships-victims-smartphones\">YouGov study<\/a>.is the fact that 1 in 3 Britons has either carried out or experienced \u201csome form of screen snubbing\u201d meaning they are either ignoring or being ignored by their partner. And what of it? Well the solicitor that commissioned the report said it was on the back of a rise in numbers of divorce enquiries as a result of people being on their phones too much!<\/p>\n<p>So now you know what to do so you don&#8217;t end up needing a divorce!<\/p>\n","protected":false},"excerpt":{"rendered":"<p>With thousands of ways for us to communicate with each other, the way we choose to mediate our romantic and sexual relationships has become a bizarrely fraught subject. 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