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Sex is a wonderful thing, and it can also be a burgeoning blunder. The pursuit for passion is one we all follow, unless you\u2019ve taken a vow of abstinence (like any nuns will be reading this). So it\u2019s only natural that if we want to receive pleasure, we also want to give it back. And that\u2019s where plenty of people fear the worst. But why do people worry they\u2019re bad in bed?<\/p>\n
It\u2019s quite plausible to see how people can fall into this way of thinking. You go out for a date with someone, you like them so you go on a few more dates, you spend a night of fun and hot sex<\/a> with your new lover, they leave the next morning and then you never hear from them again. Your first thoughts\u2026 \u201cDo I suck in bed?\u201d. And most often, the answer is no.<\/p>\n Anxiety is normal, and can be an everyday occurrence for many people. But there are three anxieties we usually associate with sex.<\/p>\n All of these anxieties show how there is an underlying expectancy that sex is an act of fitness as much as passion. So to pleasure your partner you must be some kind of gym fanatic? Well that\u2019s just not the truth. In today\u2019s society, there\u2019s a growing pressure for people to look and live better. There are male stereotypes and expectations creating a new kind of man; the spornosexual \u2013 a term combining \u201csport\u201d, \u201cporn\u201d and \u201cmetrosexual\u201d. Journalist Mark Simpson has coined this term to describe the perception of males in today\u2019s society and that the most desirable people are those who are leaner, buffer, tanned and moisturised with an obsession for the gym and low V-necks. But does physicality really matter in the bedroom?<\/p>\n\n
It\u2019s all in your head<\/h2>\n